FAQS

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does it cost to attend an event?
Prices will be posted either on our website or in an email once an event is scheduled.

Will events be held in other Florida cities besides Ft. Lauderdale?
Yes, if we can find a suitable location. 

Is this legal?
These are private parties held in private locations between consenting adults so yes, they are legal, at least for now (pay attention to which politicians you vote for to keep it this way!).

Why don't you allow cock sucking or fucking at the events?
In every major Florida city there is at least one legally operating business where you can find men interested in oral and anal sex (South Florida alone has four such locations and several swinger clubs... see our Links Page for info). There is NO Florida location or group where men can get the 100% safe sex experience that a J/O club provides. "But isn't oral sex safe", you may ask? There is still some debate over this but even if it is safe that's not the point. Jacking off with men can provide an intense orgasmic experience that many guys describe as more fun, exciting, sensual and mind-blowing than other sexual activities. Most guys are not into this for the safe sex aspect, they're into it because its fun and feels great.

What if someone tries to suck my cock or play with my ass?
Other J/O clubs ask that members police each other regarding the rules about J/O only. If someone breaks this rule with you please ask the person to stop, or if you don't want them to stop, please leave the party. If you see someone else doing it you can politely say something like "Hey, did you know this is a jacks only party?". Hopefully they'll stop but if not, let it go. We don't want to create a scene. Just be aware that if these parties ever turn into anything goes sex orgies we will stop planning them and just refer people to the other sex clubs and parties in Florida.

Is this strictly for gay men?
Surprisingly most J/O clubs report that bisexual and even straight men attend the events. Some of these guys have fond memories of a youthful experience involving a circle jerk or sexual experimentation with a male buddy so a jacks event can help them experience this again in a non-judgmental environment. Florida Jacks does not care about anyone's sexual orientation as long as they're open minded and like to have fun.

What if men approach me who I am not interested in? What if I approach a man who is not interested in me? How will I know if a man is interested in me?
These are all questions that first timers at a J/O event or sex party ask. Surprisingly these issues usually work themselves out and they're not something to get stressed over. Most guys can tell by eye contact or maybe an initial touch if there is interest. If the touch is returned then congratulations, you made a J/O buddy! If you're approached by someone that you're not into, just be polite and say “no thanks”. And if someone says “no thanks” to you, just move along and don't take it personally. Having said all that, other J/O clubs report that their members are usually friendlier and more open to various types of guys than what you would find at a traditional sex club. There's something about a room full of horny men with raging hard-ons that tends to make guys more open and relaxed about interactions. But of course every man is in control of his own body at a J/O party so you always have the final say over who you jack with.

I'm over-weight... old... have a small cock... etc... will I be embarrassed?
J/O clubs attract all types of guys and as the saying goes, there is someone for everyone. The fact is that whatever shortcoming you think you may have, there is a man out there who likes it. Will these men attend the same jack party as you? There is no way of knowing, but you won't find out unless you attend.

I'm in great shape... young... have a big dick, etc... why should I attend a J/O party?
The same reason you'd go to a traditional sex club or bathhouse... to get off! The difference with a J/O club is that it provides a safe-sex alternative. And if you enjoy the feeling of one or more hands stroking you off then your odds of experiencing that are much higher (like probably 100%) at a jacks party.

I'm just curious about a jacks party... can I attend an event as an observer?
All attendees are required to fulfill the minimum amount of participation which is defined as getting buck naked. Beyond that you are under no obligation to jack off or be jacked off at an event so yes, in theory you could just walk around naked and watch everyone else. But you'll probably find yourself getting drawn into the excitement and caught up in the moment.

Can women join the group and attend parties? I am a straight man, can I bring my wife/girlfriend?
Sorry, but women are not allowed at a Florida Jacks event. Our members are interested in a very specific thing: getting off with other men. So by that definition women cannot attend. If you are a woman or know a woman interested in male jacking events, try searching the net for “Jack and Jill” parties.

What if I see my co-worker, neighbor, friend, priest, etc. at a J/O party?
It's always a possibility that you may run into someone at a Jacks party who does not know about your sexual tastes and you'd like to keep it that way. But keep in mind that they are there for the same reason you are... to get off. And they can't tell others about seeing you there without blowing their own cover so this is probably not something to be concerned about.

I'm into leather so can I wear my gear?
All jackers must be completely naked except for their feet, so leather gear is not allowed (except for a cock ring).

I do not live in Florida or near one of the other J/O clubs. How can I start my own jacks group in my area?
Click here for an answer to this question.

In the animated Florida Jacks logo at the top of the page, why don't you have little drips of white cum where the Florida Keys would be?
We'll have to work on that!

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